Saturday, January 3, 2009

Starting the New Year with a bang!

Since I am still fairly new at this spanking thing, I am beginning to realize that I've learned a few things the hard way. I started 2009 with a spanking for discipline-I knew that wasn't going to be fun! But I had really let myself down in a couple of areas, one in particular, that needed to be addressed quickly. Well, I now understand the benefits of a warm up. Because this was strictly for punishment, I was paddled with no warm up. I had no idea how much that would hurt! The belt came out for the first time too. I've never had a particular aversion to the belt, but it's a whole different story when you hear that belt snap in someone's hand and know it will soon be snapping on your bottom. I will say, I still think the wooden paddle hurt much worse.

Disciplinary spankings do work for me; I'm more focused and less stressed. I know what not to do in the future, and, more importantly, what will happen if I do.


Anonymous said...

Hi Xan:
Happy New Year.
I give you a lot of credit, I don't think I could just jump into a disciplinary spanking without a warm up! That sounds very painful indeed. I am glad that they do work for you and remove stress and help you to focus. I still like the belt, but who knows how I will feel down the line, when it is not used in such a careful way.
I also think that its great that your needs can be met, even tho its not in the exact way that you want them to be.
Take Care,
Andrades Girl

Anonymous said...

Yes, wood is THE enemy to all soft's my nemesis. And the darn belt isn't harmless either. Sounds like your hubby started the year out right for you though by setting some boundaries and some consequences. It's just what any good girl needs. Happy 2009.